Among the many highlights of any wedding, topping the list could very well be the wedding day speeches given at the reception. If you are one of those chosen to honor the bride or groom, there are certain protocols you should be aware of beforehand. After all, this is a serious occasion and should be treated as such.
It is wise to spend a few moments remembering why you were selected to play a role in this wedding. Whoever pulled your name out of the hat of nominees considered you the person most likely to honor and support the events of the day. Your level of responsibility was probably also taken into account. Be sure that you do honor the happy couple, and take seriously your role of starting them off on the right foot from this day forward. Your wedding speech should be about glorifying this day and this event for them.
The accepted procedure for getting everyone’s attention is to tap the side of a glass with some cutlery. While this generally will get results, why not show some class and just stand and raise your glass. Everyone already knows who you are and will be expecting you to begin presenting your best wedding speech. If you exhibit your manners, they will also, and become quiet in order to hear you. They are anxious to hear what you have to say, after all.
Never attempt to deliver your speech from a sitting position. Not only is this disrespectful, it may be the undoing of your speech. Stand so that people can hear and see you, and the impact of your words can be better experienced. If your body is upright, you will be in a better speaking position.
Always remember to review your speech beforehand for instances of bad language. Cussing or profanity should never be allowed in a speech of this importance, and there is no excuse for it happening. Not only are you taking a chance at offending children or the elderly, but why lower yourself to street standards when you should be elevating yourself, your speech, those you’re honoring, and the entire tone of the day.
Keep your sentiments positive and heartfelt, and the intent of your words will most likely be remembered as such. As you end your speech, you will feel proud to raise your glass and ask all present to join you in toasting the new husband and wife and wishing them successes galore as they begin their new life together.
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